First date- first impression
Posted on January 1, 2009 by Dr. Love
If you are up for you first date you would be very much confused about your “impression” on the person you are going to have your date with. People do always take care about their impressions on the people they meet but for date everybody takes special care for their impressions. If you have this first impression thin worrying you, this note can help you a lot. Following are things which make up impression on the person you meet.
Take care for your appearance:
Take great care for your appearance on your date. The very first thing they are going to notice about you at first gaze is your appearance. Take special care for considering your appearance on your date. In your appearance first thing is your “dressing Sense”. Wear a dress, which suits you best and also the location and time of your date, make sure you are comfortable with. Wearing leather pants in summer can make you look glamorous but they would give you extreme sweat and idea of wearing mini skirts in winter night would also not look good.
Make other things also NEAT, like grooming your hair and wearing nice shoes and perfect jewelry. Don’t over do with things, remain neat and tidy.
Way of talking:
Next thing they are going to notice about you is your style of talking, your voice, your word selection, and tone used for speaking and other features of conversation would be noticed. Techniques as are used in interview should be used at your first date.
- be polite
- be confident
- use right and adequate words
- keep your tone normal
Add some pretty comments and some knowledgeable questions while you converse.
Don’t underestimate the importance of your- body language:
Following things should be taken care about body language
- maintaining good posture
- frequent eye contacts should be made
- watch out what are your hands are doing, while you talk
Most important thing:
Be yourself. Be in your skin. Don’t try being some one else! You can’t leave impressive impression your date unless you be yourself. If you are a tome cruise copy cat, it would appear pathetic. Genuine people do always love originality.
Some tips are also being added to this note to help you act on your first date:
These are few tips for you to leave impression through the way you act on your date for your first date. Let’s review them:
- If you have missed time you can call them and tell them that you would reach some minutes late for the date.
- Show them that you had prepared for your date.
- Try dressing your best and use other pages of the web to find tips regarding dressing.
- Use dating etiquettes on your first date.
- Watch for the way you speak.
- Never expect sex on your first date
- Don’t drink or eat too much which can not be controlled
- Forget mentioning past and future.
