Sex and dating
Posted on December 26, 2008 by Dr. Love
There was a time when dating has nothing to do with sex but today things are changed manifold and people do relate this dating thing with SEX. Most of the dating relations do always confront sex issues at some instance of it going.
Well! Around the world millions of the dating couples are having sex without any sort of issue. Every body has his own opinion regarding this issue. Parents, psychologist, doctors and other people are of different views for the time to initiation of this activity in any dating or coupling relation. Although we are present with so many views about this activity but it is best understood by those who are having date. They are closer to themselves and they do understand clearly their own sexual desire for each other and also their feelings.
So if you are confronting the question of when to start SEX in your dating relation, you need to check yourself if you feel like you are ready for this do ask you partner if they are ready top sleep with you.
Well! According to the norms first thing which comes in mind is “how much long do one need to wait before getting in to sexual relation with one’s date?” or “how do I know it is okay to start having sex with my date?”
To look out for the answer to this question is marking out some of the signs to get to the sexual relation ship with your partner. First sign for the sexual relation start up is looking out that how much are you close romantically with each other? If you are not so much involved with each other then chances are for no start up of this relation. Next thing to know is “check out how much comfortable do you feel with each other?” find out answer for this question and if you don’t find yourself comfortable with your partner then it is suggested to make yourself and them comfortable with each other and then move forward.
One more thing you would require to find out is why do you want to have this relation? Chalk out the factors which are involved for making you desire for sex, do you want to gain control over your partner or some other reason is making you do so?
Last thing which needs consideration on both sides is “do you find both of yourselves ready for this relation?” finding answers to these questions are the signals for you to move forward.
Once you are ready to start your sexual relations with your date you would require to e on safe shores first. Try using your common sense and make use of protection first then step in to this relation. Don’t ignore the message telling you “SAFE SEX”. Your date also needs to be on safe side. Don’t get yourself involved in these sexual relations for the sake of pleasure for not protecting yourself can ham you or your partner. Be aware about STDs and do consult your doctor time and again, once you have stepped in this sort of relation.
